haircare products for men

does anyone know of a haircare product that i can use?
i recently got a short hair style and i can’t go to the salon that often to get my hair done so is there a hair product that i can use to lay my hair down and it doesn’t give my hair that hard look and also makes it look soft and shiney but not greasy i’m going for that nia long look in the best man that soft layed down look and also thanks to whoever answer this ? i really appreciate it.
John Frieda products work wonders on my hair. I used it while I was growing out my short choppy cut. My hair is also very thick, and can be extremely frizzy without product, so I still use John Frieda’s Secret Weapon gloss. It comes in a long tube, and it’s awesome. It tames your locks and leaves them silky smooth. Just make sure you don’t put too much on, otherwise it can make you look greasy. A little bit of this product goes a long way. It’s probably best to start with a small amount, and then work your way up to a place you’re comfortable with.
I bought mine at Wal-mart, so you shouldn’t have any problems finding it at your local drugstore.